A spontaneous opinion opener comes from reacting to something your friend supposedly said and simply asking whoever is nearest—who just happen to be a pair of hot chicks! Rooting the opener means that you tell them the reason you’re asking, so that they know why they’re spending their time giving you their advice.
All of the examples below include roots, but remember that you can always go the spontaneous route if the situation calls for it. Here’s how you might deliver this one: “You look like you can help me with something.
You can pick a few from below, modify them to fit you better, and later make up your own. A couple of solid, tried-and-tested openers are enough. This opener involves approaching a woman, pointing to a guy you (supposedly) think is “perfect” for her, and trying to take her over to meet him.
Invariably she’ll refuse, and then you can say how she should trust you because you’re a great matchmaker.
” This is a fantastic opener that leads straight into relationship talk and has a lot of drama built in.
Direct Openers It took a while before I had the confidence to deliver a direct opener.
My friend is coming in an hour and he needs my advice.
He’s known his girlfriend for three months and he’s going to ask her to marry him tomorrow.
On the other hand, if I say it’s a good idea and it doesn’t work out, I’ll feel responsible.
So what do you guys think, how soon is too soon to get engaged?
He’s given me two hundred dollars and asked me to get a present for his girlfriend.