It is not unusual for an individual with ADD to become so consumed with a new relationship that all objective thought flies out the door.
When you’re right in the middle of a situation, your own perception may get skewed.
51 - Dn Laoghaire/Rathdown, Dublin Im russian well educated lady, love nature, art, classic music and sport Im very attractive, active and happy person. thank you so much, I'm hopeful it will work out this time...
There were a few dates but I found a woman that took my heart from my body and claimed it. I feel like I'm falling in love for the first time...
How do you know if it is love or just the excitement of a new partner?
You may also miss important clues or warning signs about the relationship that an outside party, who has your best interest at heart, is better able to point out to you.
Think through your past relationships, both the negative ones and the positive ones. Do you tend to go full force into a relationship that fizzles out when the excitement of the “honeymoon” period dies down?
How do you feel around this person -- happy and relaxed or insecure and rather tense? If you are looking for a life partner, is this someone with whom you want to spend the rest of your life?
Sometimes it helps to sit down with a trusted and supportive friend or family member to help you think through this process.
A person with a positive outlook and attitude is contagious.